Van Meter and his wife Sandra were married at the Buddhist Temple in 1967 and moved to the country in 1968. He taught filmmaking at the San Francisco Art Institute from 1968 to 1979 and received an M.F.A. degree in 1974. Ben and Sandra raised three children in the old Bloomfield Schoolhouse near Petaluma, California, and worked in horticulture during the 1980s. From 1990 to 2014 Van Meter conducted karma yoga in various group homes and vocational programs serving abused and emotionally disturbed children. He was also general manager of the Alturas Community Theater from 2000 to 2007. His play Lost River, the Story of the Modoc Indian War was produced four times as an outdoor drama by the Modoc County Arts Council.
Through the decades Van Meter’s films have occasionally been presented in museums, film classes, and screened at special events. However, his light shows and the hundreds of photographic slides he produced for the North American Ibis Alchemical Company shows have not been seen publicly for more than forty years. In 2014 Van Meter suffered a stroke and retired in North Lakeport, California. While recovering he met collector and activist, John Lyons, who persuaded him to begin the process of scanning and printing his 35mm slide collection, and putting his films on DVD. Lyons also advised Van Meter to consider working on a book. All of this renewed activity resulted in Van Meter’s participation in the de Young Museum’s exhibition, The Summer of Love Experience: Art, Fashion, and Rock & Roll. The exhibition features three installations of Van Meter’s work; a slide show, a continuous projection of his 1966 film, San Francisco Trips Festival, An Opening, and a A Light Show Trip-tych, which was created as a special commission for the exhibition. The end result for a public audience is a renewed appreciation of Van Meter’s boldly innovative and deeply rooted contribution to the art of experimental film and light show performance in the 1960s.